From time to time, I wonder if JP would have been better off I’d never split up with his mother. It’s usually a micro-spasm of guilt at knowing he has to adjust to separation from one parent or the other all the time. Then I remember what it was liking living with his mother, and I realize I actually did him a favor. For a taste of what my married life was like, please enjoy the lovely video below. And JP, know I did it all for you.